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Sex toys as gifts? Absolutely! Orgasms are good for both mental and physical health. A gift that helps make them possible? Well, that sounds like a thoughtful gift to us here at X’s and O’s. For partners, sex toys can open up new paths to pleasure and intimacy.
But there are some ground rules when it comes to buying a sex toy as a gift for someone else. Before we get into our sex toy gift guide, let’s go over them.
1. Only buy sex toys for people who want them.
A sex toy gift can be a surprise, but should never come as a shock. Receiving a sex toy should never cause undue pressure, misunderstandings or embarrassment. The time to discuss trying a penis ring for ED is not when the penis owner is presented with said ring! Embarrassing a shy spouse-to-be with a sex toy at their shower can cause discomfort instead of laughter.
If you’re buying for a partner, discuss the types of toys you’d enjoy using first. You can even shop together or have them choose from a list.
2. Comfort is key.
Buying sex toys as a gift is like buying clothes—fit is important. You can play it safe by sticking with external toys like vibrators and strokers. Internal toys like dildos, butt plugs and prostate massagers can take a bit more trial-and-error in terms of size and angle.
Sex Toy Gift Ideas
Gifts for Long-Distance Couples
We-Vibe’s line of app-controlled sex toys delivers interactive pleasure across the miles. One partner wears a vibrating toy while the other takes control of the speed and patterns.
Classic Favorite Sex Toys
There’s nothing like a classic. These sex toys are tried-and-true and top-rated. We’ve included options here for both solo and partner play.
Hitachi Magic Wand
The myth, the legend, the Hitachi! This vibrator is famous for its power—many folks use it through a towel or blanket. The tennis ball-like head delivers broad, rumbly stimulation. It gives an amazing back massage, too.
We-Vibe Tango X Bullet Vibrator
Every sex toy chest needs a reliable bullet vibrator, and the We-Vibe Tango X is among the best we’ve come across. It packs surprising power for its size, and delivers much deeper, richer vibrations than the typical bullet vibe. Use it solo or partnered, on any external erogenous zone.
Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Clitoral Stimulator
Different from a standard vibrator, this stimulator combines gentle suction and air flow pulses to create a delicious sensation often compared to oral sex. It has six speeds that allow the user to ramp the pulses up and down.
Fleshlight Flight Pilot
Fleshlight masturbation toys look like a flashlight on the outside, but open to reveal a textured sleeve that envelops the penis. The Flight Pilot model is especially discreet, with a non-anatomical opening and a transparent rather than flesh-tone sleeve. Add some water-based lube for the perfect gift pairing.
Liberator Wedge
We are big proponents of Liberator wedges for helping make sex more pleasurable and accessible. A wedge under the hips can allow for deeper penetration, a better angle for clitoral stimulation, and more comfortable positioning for oral sex.
Liberator wedges are made of high-quality foam that supports the body and helps take pressure off the joints.
Sex Toy Gift Sets & Kits
What’s better than several gifts in one? Sex toy gift sets allow the recipient to try out a variety of sensations. Or, for partners, it makes for a fun weekend! We’ve included a variety of gift sets here for solo and partner play, mild to wild.
Affordable Small Gifts
These sex toys are big on sensation but small on the budget. They’re a great anytime gift for someone special…or a way to try out sex toys yourself without spending too much.
TENGA Egg Lover’s Heart Masturbator
Crack open a TENGA Egg and find a stretchy, deliciously textured masturbation sleeve inside. It even includes lube! The sleeve is designed for single use, though with careful use, cleaning and lube, it may last for additional uses.
The cute and discreet egg makes a sweet gift and is easy to slip into a weekender bag for a romantic getaway.
Lovehoney Multispeed Microwand
A scaled-down version of larger wand vibrators, this pocket-sized powerhouse is ready to go anywhere. It is easy to use with three speeds and a flexible neck for hard-to-reach spots.
This vibrator uses batteries, which accounts for its lower price tag over rechargeable models, but can be a good starter option before investing in more expensive toys.
